Wednesday, April 30, 2014

April 2014 Recap


April in Wisconsin is a schizophrenic thing. It comes in like a big snowy lion, teases you with a couple of “lamb” days, then goes out as a grumpy, rainy lion. This week, it’s been raining endlessly, and the temps are in the 40s. It’s better than snow, but what I wouldn’t give for a couple of warm, sunny days heading into May.

But, April was another great month for reading. I didn’t finish quite as many books as I did in March, but I did get through eight. Again, quite a range of topics, from studying a dog’s language acquisition to parenting, from poetry to decorating to English gardens, and even (gulp) science fiction. I’m still behind on posting reviews, so I’ll give you a one-word summary until I catch up. If I ever catch up.

 

Nonfiction


Chaser, Dr. John W. Pilley, Hilary Hinzmann

infectious

 


Strings Attached, Joanne Lipman & Melanie Kupchynsky   

tragic

 

All Joy and No Fun, Jennifer Senior

interesting

 

 
Beatrix Potter’s Gardening Life, Marta McDowell

springy

 

 

Poetry


Hunger Wide as Heaven, Max Garland

gentle

 

 

Children’s


Fortunately, the Milk, Neil Gaiman

imaginative

 

 

Science Fiction

 
The Martian, Andy Weir

smart

 

 

Decorating

 
My Passion for Design, Barbra Streisand

beautiful

 

 

Currently Reading


 
 
The Boys in the Boat, Daniel James Brown

Mary Poppins, P.L. Travers


I’m not very far into Mary Poppins, but I enjoyed Saving Mr. Banks so much, I thought I should read it.

I’m really enjoying The Boys in the Boat, too. I’m roughly halfway through. If you enjoyed Laura Hillenbrand’s books, Unbroken or Seabiscuit, or Empty Mansions, I think this is a must-read. It’s the kind of book that they make into a movie. Yes, that good.


 

Tuesday, April 29, 2014

Top Ten Tuesday (If you like...)

 

http://brokeandbookish.blogspot.com/p/top-ten-tuesday-other-features.html



This week’s topic: Top Ten Books If You Like X tv show/movie/comic etc. (basically any sort of other entertainment)


It’s springtime. If ever there was a time to reinvent your life, it’s spring. Trees and flowers and birds are all coming back to life. And for those of us in the north, we’re slowing coming back, too. Now is a great time to reinvent your life, to change your routine or take on a creative project. One of the best movies about undertaking a project and reinventing a life is Julie & Julia, based on the book of the same name. Interested in how other authors changed their lives—and made a book out of it? Try these titles…


All My Life for Sale, John D. Freyer

Animal, Vegetable, Miracle: A Year of Food Life, Barbara Kingsolver

Dinner with Dad: How I Found My Way Back to the Family Table, Cameron Stracher

Eat, Pray, Love: One Woman’s Search for Everything across Italy, India, and Indonesia, Elizabeth Gilbert

The Happiness Project: Or, Why I Spent a Year Trying to Sing in the Morning, Clean My Closets, Fight Right, Read Aristotle, and Generally Have More Fun, Gretchen Craft Rubin


Humans of New York, Brandon Stanton

The Kitchen Counter Cooking School: How a Few Simple Lessons Transformed Nine Culinary Novices into Fearless Home Cooks, Kathleen Flinn

The Know-It-All: One Man’s Humble Quest to Become the Smartest Person in the World, A.J. Jacobs

Friday, April 25, 2014

Daring Greatly, Brené Brown

http://www.amazon.com/Daring-Greatly-Courage-Vulnerable-Transforms/dp/1592407331/ref=sr_sp-atf_image_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1398102902&sr=1-1&keywords=daring+greatly


Daring Greatly: How the Courage To Be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and Lead

 

Brené Brown


Category: Self-help

Synopsis: Shame and vulnerability researcher Brown discusses, well, shame and vulnerability.

Date finished: 27 March 2014

Rating: ***

Comments:
I dislike reviewing self-help books because they’re so personal. What works for some folks won’t for others. Some end up being a lifeline for a person but will leave another reader cold. That’s my experience here. I’ve seen nothing but praise for Brené Brown’s books, and this one in particular. I went in with an open mind, but it didn’t take long to realize this wasn’t the book for me.

In my estimation, the book suffers from one thing: it’s completely unnecessary. Who needs a book to tell them shame feels bad, shaming is bad, and vulnerability is worth the initial pain? After 200-some pages, I still don’t have a good grasp on what “shame” is, in her definition. It seems to boil down to anything that makes you feel bad or less than. She defines vulnerability as “uncertainty, risk, and emotional exposure.”

The main problem of the book is that she seems perfectly satisfied with giving definitions, citing her interviews (research), and then going on to writing her next bestseller. She takes forever building her case and no time applying it practically. I took away almost nothing helpful.

And frankly, I found her voice annoying. She liked to brag about her TED talk going viral (mentioned more than once) and repeatedly pointed the reader to her website. She seems equally interested in empire-building as she is helping people. It turned me off.

Lastly, although I appreciate her motive (I do believe she comes from a place of kindness), when I seek to change a behavior or explore a hurt in my past or present, I don’t turn to secular books like this. Since she was being recommended by Christian women of all types, I assumed her work here would draw on Christian themes. I couldn’t have been more wrong. When faith came up at all it was a passing reference to a “faith community.”

This book might work for a secular person who doesn’t know where to start, but anyone who’s thought much about life, emotions, context, and how to set things right, won’t find much new here. Though they will find support in a narrow system of belief and understanding, it’s a way of seeing the world I just can’t agree with.

To each her own, I guess.

Would you recommend this to a friend?
I would not.

You might enjoy:
Science and Health with Key to the Scriptures by Mary Baker Eddy
Boundaries by Henry Cloud and John Townsend


Thursday, April 24, 2014

Underwater Dogs, Seth Casteel

http://www.amazon.com/Underwater-Dogs-Seth-Casteel/dp/0316227706/ref=sr_sp-atf_image_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1398102075&sr=1-1&keywords=underwater+dogs


Underwater Dogs

 

Seth Casteel


Category: Photography; Dogs

Synopsis: Casteel presents his collection of photographs of dogs taken underwater.

Date finished: 22 March 2014       

Rating: ****

Comments:
I had to check out what this book was all about. It combines two of my favorite things: dogs and photography. The photographs are one part hilarious, one part grotesque, and two parts heart. Dogs look pretty weird moving underwater, especially if they’re on a retrieval mission. Their eyes bulge, their mouths distort, and their teeth look downright terrifying. But their fur and ears look angelic. Who knew water was such a perfect filter for capturing a portrait of man’s best friend? Seth Casteel did. 

I would have preferred a bit more text, something to show the dog’s personality “on land.” And there are a couple full-spread shots where the action is happening right in the gutter—where the pages come together—and you can’t see the dog. This was a heinous oversight in a photography book, if you ask me.

Would you recommend this to a friend?
Fun for the whole family. There’s also an Underwater Dogs: Kids Edition.

You might also enjoy:
Maddie on Things

Wednesday, April 23, 2014

Growing Up Duggar, Jana, Jill, Jessa, & Jinger Duggar

http://www.amazon.com/Growing-Up-Duggar-About-Relationships/dp/1451679165/ref=sr_sp-atf_image_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1398101547&sr=1-1&keywords=growing+up+duggar


Growing Up Duggar: It’s All about Relationships

 

Jana, Jill, Jessa, & Jinger Duggar


Category: Parenting & Families; Faith

Synopsis: The oldest four Duggar girls, stars of the reality TV show “19 Kids and Counting,” discuss a young woman’s most important relationships, with a focus on faith and family.

Date finished: 20 March 2014

Rating: ****

Comments:
It seems disrespectful to start off a book review with the words “this wasn’t as bad as I thought it might be,” but that might be my most honest reaction. Don’t get me wrong, I adore the Duggars, and while I wouldn’t make some of their lifestyle choices, I respect them. I’ve read both of the books by JimBob and Michelle, and this one, written by their oldest four daughters, reads much the same way. The prose is straightforward, easy to understand, non-judgmental, and friendly.

The book deals with a young woman’s relationships with herself, parents, siblings, friends, guys, culture, country, and world (a chapter for each). They talk about their family and personal convictions regarding modesty, dating, entertainment, and serving others. They touch on politics, personal study and careers, the importance of family, and their role in helping others. Everything is filtered through a faith-based lens, because that is how they structure their lives.

I speculate that the girls had some help in writing this book. It sounds very much like the writing in the previous Duggar family books and very little like what the girls sound like when they’re being interviewed on their reality show. That didn’t really bother me. They gave examples for the principles they shared, and when they got preachy, it was adorably so. Much of the book was a rehash of their parents parenting style, but these are young women, and they are naïve to much more than what they experience at home and on their mission trips. You take it all with a grain of salt.

The Duggar family has followers and haters, and a whole lot of people just shake their heads and wonder how they can live that way. A lot of folks put them up as a poster family for all conservatives. A lot of folks throw around the phrases “brainwashed” and “judgmental.” Personally, I think you’ll find in this family what you look for. If you look for a strong, loving, principled family, you’ll see it. If you look for a close-minded, judgmental, fanatical family, you’ll see that. Personally, I find the family inspiring. Though I interpret scripture differently from them, our core values are the same. I appreciate what they do to bring comfort to others throughout the world.

Would you recommend this to a friend?
Yes. This would be perfect for a Christian girl from early teens through young adulthood.

You might also enjoy:
The Duggars: 20 and Counting!
A Love that Multiplies

Monday, April 21, 2014

Unbroken, Laura Hillenbrand

http://www.amazon.com/Unbroken-World-Survival-Resilience-Redemption/dp/1400064163/ref=sr_sp-atf_image_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1398100488&sr=8-1&keywords=ubroken



Unbroken: A World War II Story of Survival, Resilience, and Redemption

 

Laura Hillenbrand


Category: Biography; History

Synopsis: Bombardier Louis Zamperini’s rescue plane goes down over the Pacific Ocean in WWII and he becomes a Prisoner of War in brutal Japanese camps.

Date finished: 19 March 2014

Rating: *****

Comments:
And I thought Seabiscuit was good.

I bought this book when it came out several years ago, but I never wanted to commit myself to the inevitable emotional pain of reading it. It’s a traumatizing tale of brutality, bravery, and hope. There are times, though, when hope flags, and you are plunged, like Louis, into despair the likes of which most human beings never experience. Fortunately.

*I’ll try to give no spoilers, but my review does go beyond what the Amazon product description reveals.*

Olympic runner Louis Zamperini is a bombardier in the Pacific theatre in World War II. This is a time in history when planes are still relatively young. (Lindbergh made his historic flight in 1927; WWII is not even two decades beyond this.) The fighter planes of this era are new technology—each “B” plane an improvement over the one before, but each suffered design flaws. Many planes went down, and when a plane went down in the expanse of the Pacific Ocean, military rescue efforts, though quickly initiated, were seldom successful. Into this chaos steps Louis and his team, running a routine rescue mission for a downed plane and its crew. Their rattletrap plane goes down, killing all but three of the crewmen. The remaining men drift for 46 days on life rafts. They endure starvation, dehydration, and a shiver of sharks who seem to be waiting patiently for their demise. This was my “favorite” part of the book, which tells you something about what comes next.

The men are eventually “rescued” but Japanese seamen, who treat them well, before being turned over to a POW camp. This is where their awful journey turns horrific. The brutality of the camps—unlike any operated in the European theatre of the same war—is breathtaking. The starvation, forced labor, and constant beatings are almost too much to bear, even to the reader. And this goes on for years. The Japanese culture believes that surrender in war is a great dishonor, and any man who would allow himself to be captured should endure the harshest treatment because he is weak and lacks pride. A Japanese soldier would often rather kill himself than be captured.

But ultimately, this is a story of the human nature and the human spirit. The Japanese knew that humiliation would break a man sooner and more completely than any other treatment. Many men died. Many survived. Why would fill whole volumes. 

But even with the Japanese surrender and the liberation of the POW camps, the journey was not over for these young men. Many were unable to make the transition back to civilian life. Many fought addictions and found themselves tethered to painful memories, nightmares, and flashbacks. Louis Zamperini is one of the countless who fought the residual demons every day until he accepted God and found his way out. He then became a speaker to bring the story to the states, so it would not be forgotten.

There is so much going on here. So very much pain. I was left to marvel at two things: the darkness of human hearts and the buoyancy of the human spirit. These things have been a part of humankind since the beginning of time—WWII, of course, was not the be-all and end-all of human cruelty or human triumph. It makes you wonder just how long these stories have to be repeated before we finally get it.

Never before have I read a book that was equal parts heartbreaking and life-affirming. Hillenbrand tells the story with sensitivity, clarity, and mercy, but never glossing over the harsh realities.

I was recently talking to a friend about this book, and he told me that Angelina Jolie is directing a movie based on it. Apparently, she read the book and then went in search of Zamperini, who, it turns out, lived in her neighborhood. The film is set to be released on Christmas Day.

Would you recommend this to a friend?
Everyone should read this book, lest we forget. Greatest generation, indeed.

You might also enjoy:
Seabiscuit


Friday, April 18, 2014

The Duckling Gets a Cookie!?, Mo Willems

http://www.amazon.com/Duckling-Gets-Cookie-Pigeon/dp/1423151283/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1395944866&sr=1-1&keywords=duckling+gets+a+cookie


The Duckling Gets a Cookie!?

 

Mo Willems


Category: Children’s Picture Book

Synopsis: Duckling asks for—and receives—a cookie. What will Pigeon’s reaction be?

Rating: *** (3-star scale)

Comments:
I love how Willems’ books often have tiny morals or behavioral lessons and often attach a surprise ending. This is one of the best in those respects. My husband even read it and liked it so much he wondered aloud who we might buy it for.

I have a soft spot for rowdy characters like Pigeon who rage off the deep end—and also for soft-spoken big-eyed characters like Duckling who always seem to be a step ahead because they’re so even-keeled and clearheaded. I think children (adults, too) see themselves in both.

Read this one. I think you’ll like it.

Would you recommend this to a friend?
Yes.

You might also enjoy:
Any of the other Pigeon books.